DEPRESSED IN BOSTON

Dear Advice Between Friends,
It's Christmas, and for some reason I always get a very depressed feeling of loneliness and also a dislike for those around me. Everyone is just crazy trying to buy, buy, buy. They never think of others, and I get so tired of it. Life just gets dismal this time of year and I wish it would not, but I'm not sure what I can do. I would appreciate your help, since you seem so wise. I also trust your counsel after reading the other pleas for help. thanks again....
Depressed in Boston


Dear Depressed in Boston,
My advice? If you've forgotten the meaning of Christmas, watch the movie, "The Bishop's Wife" with Cary Grant and David Niven. If you've lost the feeling for your fellow man, then volunteer at a homeless shelter. If you're lonely and see no color in the world, take the meal you had prepared for your family or self, and present it to a needy neighbor or friend, anonymously.
In other words, DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! Never let a minute go by where you're not wondering what you can do for someone else. This world is full of selfish individuals who live life on the edge, thinking that the next thrill will help them past whatever it is they're struggling with.
You can be better than that. Life is to be lived by serving others. It's that simple. No bows, no strings attached, no fan fare....but I guess it's too simple a concept for some people to accept.
But you're not like that. I can sense it. You want more in life. This will be the cure all for you.
I guarantee it! Make your list and start your new life.
Advice Between Friends